I’m out socializing with a man I don’t know. I take him to Gram’s house and show him her garden. I tell him how important she was in my life when I was growing up.
He has some other friends who don’t like me. In particular, there’s a woman with long dark hair who clearly despises me. When I meet her for the first time, I snicker at her, and she sees me and gets pissed. Later, I won’t acknowledge that I’ve done anything that would make her dislike me.
This man is going out with his friends, this woman included, and I decline to go with them.